STRESS :THE ORDER OF MY LIFE....

Hey guys! I know I have been a very bad blogger .The worst I think but honestly I have been stressed emotionally,physically,psychologically and  all that .                                                     I recently started university and I am trying to juggle uni life, my social life, health , school and also some major things have been happening in my life and yes they have really affected my emotional wellbeing but they have also inspired me to blog and I’ll be blogging about all my emotional bla di bla because honestly it makes me feel better . I hardly ever ttalk to people about my feelings because honestly I don’t know how to verbally explain it but when it comes to writing , I can express myself more . Anyway back to the topic , STRESS!   I am literally dying . But I’ll say I put some of this stress on myself because I procrastinate a lot and when it comes to school work, it doesn’t help a lot .Right now , I have about 7 assignments to start working on 3 I should have done weeks ago but I have been lazy , sick emotionally and physically and all that . Also I want to work on my blog more and I am trying to keep up with my YouTube channel . To be honest , I’m going crazy but I’m trying to calm down . Please how do you guys dal with stress!? Any tips ?

Comment ! tell me ! lets help eachother . Guys also help me with ideas to blog about . I’m also stressing out in that department . Any questions you want to ask?

Have a nice stress free day

Aima xoxo

BACK!/UPDATE ON YOUTUBE CHANNEL/VLOGGING

My People! I am sooooooooooooo sorry for this disappearing act i just pulled. I haven’t been up to date with blogging and vlogging and i can say its mostly my fault. The blogging part, i actually do not know if there is anything like a bloggers block but i think there is something like a writers block ... oh well i had a bloggers block ! i seriously did not know what to write. I reached a stall. Like you know when you go on a diet and you start to loose weight and you reach a stall where you just stop. Well that’s kind of what happened to me and also most of the ideas i have , i feel they will be better on my YouTube channel which i hope you guys have checked out and if you have not , i will leave the link . So guys I know I might not be that big of a blogger to do a Q&A but if you have any questions or if you have any topic at all that you will like me to talk about either on my blog or my YouTube channel, please email me or comment or send me a message on any of my social media accounts .

Have a lovely day

Aima xxx

A Brighter Tomorrow

At this moment in my life , I can finally say that I am happy . I am happy with myself . I am happy that i have the greatest friends in the world that love me no matter what . I have finally decided to stop complaining about minor situations that I may have and that truly does not stop my world from moving on. I have learnt to thank God in every situation. Sometimes we take a little problem and put it on a pedestal but we forget those who have the worst problems and who are in the worst situations . Situations where there seems to be no hope and yet they keep on believing and smiling . We complain if we don’t get a certain type of food that we like but we forget that there are people who do not have a choice ,who do not have any food to choose from . We are upset about our physical appearance but yet we are comfortable . There are human beings out there that would give anything to be in your situation no matter how little you think you have . We should learn to embrace our souls. Look into each other’s souls and love that person genuinely . After all from dust we came and to dust we shall return. At the end of the day when we leave this earth , we shall be remembered for our spirits and not our bodies . Our bodies will decay and that shows that it is not eternal but our spirits live on forever. Look forward and see that there is light and follow that light and reach for your dreams . In every situation you find yourself in , Praise Almighty God for he knows what is best .

Have a wonderful day guys !

Image by Ryan McGuire 

http://www.imcreator.com/free/the-endless-road

EVOLUTION SERIES 1 EPISODE 1

Hehe i'm sure you're probably wondering "hmmm which series is this? "" Have i watched it ?" " Is it new ?"  Is it a series ? Yes . Is it on TV ? No . Have you watched it ? You're about to watch the first episode Live!

Well i chose to call this series Evolution and it is simply the change i want to go through . I want to become a healthier , focused Aima . Recently i decided i would stop dieting and finally change my lifestyle gradually and that s what i'm doing . My friend Leah who is also a blogger and i would leave the link to her blog and also her Youtube channel, anyway she also wants to go through this change although sh'es already Team Fitfam ! Lol but people have their reasons . So i said ok let's do this together . we have been planning meals , going to the gym together through out this week . We went to the gym on monday and today is the second gym session . I dont want to go to the gym everydsay because this is a gradual process and it takes time for me to get into that routine so anyway today we had dinner , went to the gym and then had a red berry smoothie . Here are some pictures:

 Beautiful salad made by ME! Lol yummy

 Me skipping ! Yes that's a skipping rope if you can't see it

Lol don't laugh at my tiny legs compared to my body . such an improportionate body .


Leah's details :https://dreamyhopes.wordpress.com/
https://www.youtube.com/user/kleasby

PLUS SIZE TAG!

https://www.pinterest.com/tatiregis/gorditas/


Since i'm in the spirit of tags, i thought why not do a plus size tag ! I got the questions fromhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bvc0KukECTA

Enjoy!

1. What do you classify yourself as: (example) Curvy; Fat; Thick; Plus size; Heavy; ? PHAT (Pretty Hot and Tempting)

I Classify myself as Fat.

2. What is your Body shape: (example) Hourglass; Spoon; Rectangle; Triangle; Pear; Apple: Carries most of her weight in her belly, smaller hips, relatively larger waist.
Pear: Carries most weight in hips, thighs, and buddox; generally smaller upper body.
Triangle: Bust larger than hips and waist
Rectangle: About equal bust, waist, hips.

Apple

3. Are you comfortable /happy at your current size? What is your (positive) as a plus size person? 

 If you have been keeping up with my blog posts, I have recently been emotionally up and down about this issue but now I can tell you that I am happy with my size but I am not comfortable . Yes I am confident and happy but I want to loose weight so I can be healthier .

4. What is a Fat thing that you do and think is funny? Example (breathe heavy or sweat profusely)

Lol this is funny ! Okay I always tell people that I have an early syndrome or something but the truth is that I go early to places so I can walk at my pace and not have to run !hehehe

5. What is your Plussize pet peeve?

 Hmm I dislike it when someone who is plus size would automatically say they are thick . I mean if you are fat , say you are fat , thick , say you are thick but do not say you are thick when you are clearly not just because you want to avoid the word FAT!

6. Heels or Flats?

Flats all day!

7. when it comes to dating what do you prefer- A Chubby , Fit, or Slim guy/girl? 

Any guy that makes me feel good . But I am mostly attracted to tall guys(we’re talking 6 foot and above) , slim guys (  I have to balance the equation)

8. Favorite Food?

I have none

9. Name one flaw?

My flaw is my tummy and my arms ! OMG I have big arms and I have more than a muffin top ! It’s huge !

10. Favorite item of clothing?

I love leggings! They’re so comfy!

11. Swimsuit-One piece or 2 piece? 

Never tried a swimsuit but I will one day and I think I’ll prefer a one piece

12. How do you feel about the plus size community? Is it accepting? 

I feel like the plus size community has definitely grown over the years in the sense that plus size people are more accepted and brands are making more plus size clothes  but it’s still a working progress and I know that it will get there some day .

13. Name one plus size celebrity

Raven Goodwin ! I love her . If you do not know her , she’s in Being Mary Jane

14. Favorite place to shop

Asos and Boo Hoo

15. Give a Plus Size tip.
I’ll say try to be confident and love yourself  .
16. Name one embarrassing fashion moment you've had. 

I don't think i have had any 

17. What's one fashion risk you're taking this season?
I wanna do crop tops and high waisted jeans or high waist skirts
18. What's the craziest thing someone's ever said to you on a date about plus size women?
“You know your’e beautiful , for a bigger girl” For goodness sake stop labelling people! If I am beautiful , say it , don’t give conditions !
19. What inspires your style?

Still looking for that inspiration but someone that really inspires me is the natural fashionista thenaturalfashionista.com

20. What quote motivates you?

“Beauty is in the eye of the beholder”

100 RANDOM QUESTIONS TAG!!

Okay guys i've been feeling taggy today ! Lol that's if that word exists ! Anyway i thought i should do the 100 random questions tag so you can get to know me more ! Enjoy !

1    1.     Do you sleep with your closet doors opened or closed?

I sleep with my closet doors closed because I feel that if they are open then someone is in there and that freaks me out!

2.     Do you take the shampoos and conditioner bottles from hotels?

Oh yes I do ! I take them all! If I don’t , then what am I paying for ?!

3.     Do you sleep with your sheets tucked in or out?

Anyhow! I really don’t pay attention to that .

4.     Have you ever stolen a street sign before?

Lol nope! Why would anyone even do that?

5.     Do you like to use post-it notes?

Yes I do . I feel they’re great for organization!

6.     Do you cut out coupons but then never use them?

Nope I dot even cut out coupons in the first place!

7.     Would you rather be attacked by a big bear or a swarm of bees?

Hehe1 this is tough! A bear can be dangerous but it’s only one thing . but , bees are dangerous also and they are so many .. I pick a bear . I think that’s better .

8.     Do you have freckles?

Not at all.

9.     Do you always smile for pictures?

Yes i do

10. What is your biggest pet peeve?

Oh I hate it when I am talking to someone and the person is explaining something to me and they’re constantly saying
“Do you understand?” or “you get right ?” Very ANNOYING!

11. Do you ever count your steps when you walk?

Sometimes I do just for fun . Lol I know I am weird !

12. Have you ever peed in the woods?

NO!

13. What about pooped in the woods?

NEVER! I’ll rather hold it! Thank you

14. Do you ever dance if there’s no music playing?

No way! There has to be music . Then I can feel the rhythm

15. Do you ever chew your pens and pencils?

Lol I used to . When I was in primary school . hehe dirty habit

16. How many people have you slept with this week?

I sleep alone so no one !

17. What size is your bed?

Just a little bit smaller than a king size.

18. What is your song of the week?

Jack sparrow by Rayce https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rhGhs8S4UZw

19. Is it okay for guys to wear pink?

I think it is okay ! It actually looks good .

20. Do you still watch cartoons?

Hell yes ! I’m a child at everywhere ! hehe

21. What is your least favorite movie?

Inception ! the one with Leonardo Dicaprio! I hate that movie !

22. Where would you bury hidden treasure if you had some?

SECRET!!

23. What do you drink with dinner?

Mostly water .

24. What do you dip a chicken nugget in?

BBQ Sauce!

25. What is your favorite food?

I don’t have any . It depends on my mood .

26. What movies would you watch over and over and still love?

Sound of Music and Beverly Hills 90210 and Orange is the new black ! Although the other two are not movies … Oh well , I still love them!

27. Last person you kissed/kissed you?

My dad. Kissed me goodbye.

28. Where you ever a boy/girl scout?

I was a girls guide .. I don’t think it’s the same thing …. Anyway it doesn’t matter . It has girl in it so it should be linked to girls scout!

29. Would you ever strip or pose nude in a magazine?

No

30. When was the last time your wrote a letter to someone on paper?

Like about a month ago when I wrote a letter to my best friend .

31. Can you change the oil on a car?

Nope

32. Ever gotten a speeding ticket?

NOOOOOO!

33. Ever ran out of gas?

I DO NOT HAVE A CAR AND I CAN NOT DRIVE ! YET.

34. Favorite kind of sandwich?

I’m not really a sandwich person but if I have to , Ham .

35. Best thing to eat for breakfast?

Toasted Bread and Nigerian stew with any meat .

36. What is your usual bedtime?

Anytime  after 12 am

37. Are you lazy?

Yes I am

38. When you were a kid, what did you dress up as for Halloween?

Myself ! I never celebrated Halloween and I still do not.

39. What is your Chinese astrological sign?

I had to go to google for this! I’m an Ox

40. How many languages can you speak?

Well one but if pidgin is classified as a language , then two . I think  it should be . so yes two : English Language and Pidgin English/broken. Any one wey u wan call am .

41. Do you have any magazine subscriptions?

Nope

42. Which are better Legos or Lincoln logs?

I’ve never had Lincoln logs , so I would go with Legos although Legos can be devilish when you step on them.

43. Are you stubborn?

Yes I am .

44. Who is better…Leno or letterman?

I really don’t know them well so I looked them up and saw their pictures .. so I will have to say none .

45. Ever watch soap operas?

Yes

46. Are you afraid of heights?

YES I AM

47. Do you sing in the car?

Yes I do

48. Do you sing in the shower?

Obviously I do ! I have like a whole show in there.

49. Do you dance in the car?

I dance everywhere.

50. Ever used a gun?

Never and I don’t want to use one

51. Last time you got a portrait taken by a photographer?

About 3 years ago

52. Do you think musicals are cheesy?

No I think they’re cute and I love to watch them.

53. Is Christmas stressful?

Yes when I have family members over .

54. Ever eat a pierogi?

Nope but I’ll love to try one

55. Favorite type of fruit pie ?

I don’t even like fruit pie

56. Occupations you wanted to be when you were a kid?

Musician, Actress and film producer . I still want to be all of them except musician because I don’t have the voice *sad face

57. Do you believe in ghosts?

Yes I wouldn’t call them ghosts though , I would say spirits . yes I do believe in them.

58. Ever had a deja-vu feeling?

Yes a lot !

59. Take a vitamin daily?

Nope I do not .

60. Wear slippers?

Yes I do

61. Wear a bath robe?

Everyday

62. What do you wear to bed?

Mostly night gowns or Pj’s or anything I feel like .

63. First concert?

Still waiting to attend one

64. Asda, Sainsbury’s or Tesco?

Asda!

65. Nike or Addidas?

None

66. Cheetos or fritos?

None

67. Peanuts or sunflower seeds?

Peanuts

68. Ever heard of the group tres bien?

Nope

69. Ever take dance lessons?

Yes once upon a time….

70. Is there a Profession you picture your future spouse doing?

Hopefully a music producer or a film producer ! Please God answer my prayers!

71. Can you curl out your tongue?

Sadly , No

72. Ever won a spelling bee?

Nope but I would win if I contested in one

73. Have you ever cried because you were so happy?

Yes I have

74. Own any record albums?

No

75. Own a record player?

If I don’t have record albums , how will I have a record player? Is it for decoration!?

76. Regularly burn incense?

No

77. Ever been in love?

No , not yet

78. Who would you like to see in a concert?

Wizkid or Burna Boy

79. What was the last concert you saw?

I told you before ! I have not been to one ! Do you not keep up!?

80. Hot tea or cold tea?

I thought tea was supposed to be hot … oh well I guess hot .

81. Tea or coffee?

EWWWWW I HATE COFFEE! Tea.

82. Sugar or snickerdoodles?

Don’t know what the other thing is and can’t be bothered to ask google so sugar.

83. Can you swim well?

The question should be “Can you swim at all?” which the answer would be NO

84. Can you hold your breath without holding your nose?

Yes

85. Are you patient?

Not at all . I can’t wait to answer the last question!

86. Dj or band at a wedding ?

Both

87. Ever won a contest?

No

88. Ever have plastic surgery?

No and I don’t wish to

89. Which are better, black or green olives?

Black

90. Can you knit or crochet?

Nope

91. Best room for a fireplace?

Living room

92. Do you want to get married?

Yes I do

93. If married, how long have you been married?

Told you ! I am not married

94. Who was your High school crush?

He knows himself / they know themselves

95. Do you cry and throw a fit until you get your own way?

I’m a grown womannnnnnn… I can do whatever I like .

96. Do you have kids?

Not yet

97. Do you want kids?

Yasss!

98. What’s your favorite color?

Purple

99. Do you miss anyone right now ?

Yes one of my best friends

       100.Something that happened to you in middle school.

Hmm I got in a fight with one guy and he punched me and I fainted .